I love that Love and Logic doesn't set itself up as the ultimate 100% perfect parenting program. They suggest that we "experiment" with the tools being added to our toolbox to see which one's will work best for us. That makes sense to me. Every child is different. Different tools work better at different ages or stages or even depending on who is using them. Sometimes a tool I thought was useless turns out to be just the right thing when I experiment with using it.